We need to stop advertising low self esteem. I saw this lil post on tumblr the other day that stated this: “Stop romanticizing low self esteem; it is one thing to love someone who happens to have low self esteem, it’s another thing to frame low self esteem as a desirable trait” This is honestly the best thing I have seen as it is 100% true. I used to have a very, very low opinion of myself and over the years that has improved a little bit, however I still have poor self esteem. It makes me so mad – almost furious in fact, that some people think it’s “cute” and such to feel that way about yourself.
I will tell you now that it is not at all cute to feel worthless, unattractive and down-right crappy about yourself. It is something that people need help with. I am lucky to be surrounded with supportive and amazing peers that help me feel good about myself. For others that’s not always the case. I can’t stand the thought of people purposely making themselves feel bad because apparently this is “attractive”.
It’s sick that low self esteem is promoted so much these days. Like things such as cutting (ie: that stupid #CutForBeiber) have almost become a trend among young teens! My younger sister thought it was okay for people to do these things because other people were doing it. Although she wasn’t actually hurting herself, it broke my heart that it seemed acceptable. I had to tell her that it was definitely not okay.
All in all, feeling crappy about yourself isn’t something to be promoted and encouraged. If anyone thinks that it’s okay to have these as desired traits, I’m truly horrified that you think that. Rant over.
- Miranda xx
10/2/14 V-Day
February 14th is the most loved and hated day of the year. I can see both sides of this speculative day and I am sad to say I do not have a special someone this Valentine’s Day – I mean I thought I would, but sadly that didn’t work out – however that isn’t the point.
This post isn’t about crying over the fact I do not have a boyfriend on Valentine’s Day though – it’s about why we have the day in the first place. I’m not sure if you know the historic reason why V-Day is celebrated, so go I will give a brief wikipedia summary:
The most common heard theory behind Valentine’s Day is that a man named Valentine was imprisoned for performing weddings for soldiers who were forbidden to marry and for ministering to Christians, who were persecuted under the Roman Empire. He died on February 14 and to celebrate the romantic gestures he performed, people dedicated that date to love in his name.
As I am a hopeless romantic at heart, I can’t help but love the day even when I’m forever alone in the boyfriend department. I mean love can be expressed in many ways whether it is romantic love between partners, friendship, family, etc. So even if you are single and feeling low, remember you can always count on your friends to spend the day reminiscing your loved friendship. If you just really hate Valentine’s Day, be ironic or iconic.
Ironic meaning either watching horror movies to forget the lovey dovey crap that’s going on that day; or buy yourself flowers and chocolate and remind yourself like Lana Del Rey does, that you’re just your own soul mate. Iconic then meaning go out with your friends and make a statement! Whether that is finding another single to seduce with your hot blazing persona, or strutting your sexy single ass and having a good time with your best friends.
Either way, don’t spend the day drowning in your sorrows if that’s the case – nobody loves a party pooper. Reminisce in the moment and enjoy the day for whatever floats your boat in what I suggested above. Believe me, you will have a way better day if you get your head out of the sand and enjoy the sun. If you do have a special someone to spend the day with though, make sure to tell them how much they mean to you (not saying you shouldn’t do that anyway), but the opportunity is there! Make the most of it.
I hope everyone has a fabulous Valentine’s Day!
- Miranda Xx
This post isn’t about crying over the fact I do not have a boyfriend on Valentine’s Day though – it’s about why we have the day in the first place. I’m not sure if you know the historic reason why V-Day is celebrated, so go I will give a brief wikipedia summary:
The most common heard theory behind Valentine’s Day is that a man named Valentine was imprisoned for performing weddings for soldiers who were forbidden to marry and for ministering to Christians, who were persecuted under the Roman Empire. He died on February 14 and to celebrate the romantic gestures he performed, people dedicated that date to love in his name.
As I am a hopeless romantic at heart, I can’t help but love the day even when I’m forever alone in the boyfriend department. I mean love can be expressed in many ways whether it is romantic love between partners, friendship, family, etc. So even if you are single and feeling low, remember you can always count on your friends to spend the day reminiscing your loved friendship. If you just really hate Valentine’s Day, be ironic or iconic.
Ironic meaning either watching horror movies to forget the lovey dovey crap that’s going on that day; or buy yourself flowers and chocolate and remind yourself like Lana Del Rey does, that you’re just your own soul mate. Iconic then meaning go out with your friends and make a statement! Whether that is finding another single to seduce with your hot blazing persona, or strutting your sexy single ass and having a good time with your best friends.
Either way, don’t spend the day drowning in your sorrows if that’s the case – nobody loves a party pooper. Reminisce in the moment and enjoy the day for whatever floats your boat in what I suggested above. Believe me, you will have a way better day if you get your head out of the sand and enjoy the sun. If you do have a special someone to spend the day with though, make sure to tell them how much they mean to you (not saying you shouldn’t do that anyway), but the opportunity is there! Make the most of it.
I hope everyone has a fabulous Valentine’s Day!
- Miranda Xx
3/1/14 School
So last Thursday I went back to school (I don’t know why on a Thursday, but never mind that). I am pretty excited about this school year. I mean I get to start over with a new homeroom group, new electives such as Photography, I.T, and VCE Agriculture/Horticulture. Last year was a pretty average year school wise, so I am just glad to start over.
However, this year I don’t have many of my friends in some of my classes and electives. That means I have to socialise with others and probably people I don’t particularly like. You see, I’m not that good at socialising with people I don’t know unless they are likable classmates or I like their vibe. Plus, the fact that it’s my fourth year at high school (so Year 10 if I haven’t mentioned that before), I basically know who everyone is and who I like/dislike already.
With saying that though, I won’t let that issue stop me from succeeding in my classes. I’m so excited to be taking my new electives and I’m ready to challenge myself this year and work really hard. The key to doing this is to just be organised, be open to discussion, and to think positive. Cheesy but true nevertheless. Hopefully by the end of the semester, or year, I will have achieved what I needed to complete. This just means I have to be more determined than ever to do so.
I apologize for the short post but I felt I had to share at least something this week.
- Miranda Xx
However, this year I don’t have many of my friends in some of my classes and electives. That means I have to socialise with others and probably people I don’t particularly like. You see, I’m not that good at socialising with people I don’t know unless they are likable classmates or I like their vibe. Plus, the fact that it’s my fourth year at high school (so Year 10 if I haven’t mentioned that before), I basically know who everyone is and who I like/dislike already.
With saying that though, I won’t let that issue stop me from succeeding in my classes. I’m so excited to be taking my new electives and I’m ready to challenge myself this year and work really hard. The key to doing this is to just be organised, be open to discussion, and to think positive. Cheesy but true nevertheless. Hopefully by the end of the semester, or year, I will have achieved what I needed to complete. This just means I have to be more determined than ever to do so.
I apologize for the short post but I felt I had to share at least something this week.
- Miranda Xx
27/1/14 Take a step in my glamorous shoes
I never really thought I had a unique and stylish way of dressing until recently. I mean, I knew what sort of clothes I liked but up until current months I knew how to style all my pieces together. Not to seem boastful, but I will say I have quite a good eye in fashion. I wouldn’t call myself a fashionista but I always have to look my best everywhere I go.
I guess my style changes depending on my current interest at the time; I guess that’s with most people I suppose. Right now I tend to go for girly vintage looks. Lots of pastels, golds and elegant patterns consume my wardrobe right now. A lot of my friends always comment on how they love my closest and now they would die to have the things inside it (again not to boast). However I do own a fair few classy yet sexy outfits here and there. I do love my blacks and reds as well as my pastels.
The key to owning these amazing pieces is to wait until they are on sale. It may sound shabby and meretricious, but still being young and still unfortunately unemployed, I have very limited money supply. Also, it helps me be a good shopper. If I see something that catches my eye and it’s full price and out of my budget, I wait a few weeks until it goes on sale. If I still desire to have whatever it is, then I buy it. Otherwise if I bought it when it was full price, I would have 1) I may not even want it anymore or have no need for it/have nowhere to wear what ever it is. 2) Therefore I wasted precious money I could have used on something else. I am a very savvy shopper I must say.
Even though I have developed my own style, I still like to wear some what of whatever is the latest fashion trend. However I only buy it if it is something that I would wear once the season is over, and/or it is something I truly love. Take peplum tops/skirts/dresses for example. Although not many people are still wearing many peplum items, I still find them adorable. The design compliments my figure as it makes my waist seem skinnier and my hips more curvy. I mean why not wear something that is cute and complimentary? Even if the design has disappeared for a little bit, if you wear it with pride and confidence, the style might just come bouncing back, and there you have it: You’ve set the trend/bought it back in fashion!
However with things such as those “jelly” shoes – AKA plastic/rubber sandals or flip flops, I find personally tacky and they will soon find their way out of style. I mean crocs are bad enough without these things. And too, wouldn’t they be so uncomfortable in the summer heat? You’re not meant to wear these shoes with socks, so sweaty feet against plastic/rubber is not a good combination. Plus the shoes would smell like crap. Items like them will be off the shelves soon enough.
All in all, I hope you liked reading more about who I am and my style of wardrobe.
- Miranda Xx
I guess my style changes depending on my current interest at the time; I guess that’s with most people I suppose. Right now I tend to go for girly vintage looks. Lots of pastels, golds and elegant patterns consume my wardrobe right now. A lot of my friends always comment on how they love my closest and now they would die to have the things inside it (again not to boast). However I do own a fair few classy yet sexy outfits here and there. I do love my blacks and reds as well as my pastels.
The key to owning these amazing pieces is to wait until they are on sale. It may sound shabby and meretricious, but still being young and still unfortunately unemployed, I have very limited money supply. Also, it helps me be a good shopper. If I see something that catches my eye and it’s full price and out of my budget, I wait a few weeks until it goes on sale. If I still desire to have whatever it is, then I buy it. Otherwise if I bought it when it was full price, I would have 1) I may not even want it anymore or have no need for it/have nowhere to wear what ever it is. 2) Therefore I wasted precious money I could have used on something else. I am a very savvy shopper I must say.
Even though I have developed my own style, I still like to wear some what of whatever is the latest fashion trend. However I only buy it if it is something that I would wear once the season is over, and/or it is something I truly love. Take peplum tops/skirts/dresses for example. Although not many people are still wearing many peplum items, I still find them adorable. The design compliments my figure as it makes my waist seem skinnier and my hips more curvy. I mean why not wear something that is cute and complimentary? Even if the design has disappeared for a little bit, if you wear it with pride and confidence, the style might just come bouncing back, and there you have it: You’ve set the trend/bought it back in fashion!
However with things such as those “jelly” shoes – AKA plastic/rubber sandals or flip flops, I find personally tacky and they will soon find their way out of style. I mean crocs are bad enough without these things. And too, wouldn’t they be so uncomfortable in the summer heat? You’re not meant to wear these shoes with socks, so sweaty feet against plastic/rubber is not a good combination. Plus the shoes would smell like crap. Items like them will be off the shelves soon enough.
All in all, I hope you liked reading more about who I am and my style of wardrobe.
- Miranda Xx
13/1/14 Friendship, Love, & Trust
My friends are very precious to me and I have made it a promise to never take them for granted. My friends are the people who keep me grounded, secure, and who make me feel just generally happy. We all have those one or two people that are closer to you than some. I am lucky enough to have such companions in my life. I always tell them how much they mean to me. I know that I don’t have to do this, but they are my world and I just feel the need to tell them. Trust me when I say this, I owe them a lot for what they have done for me, mainly some more than others.
I lately realised how much I love my buddies because of two recent events that I have watched and/or experienced: 1) I walked away from an unhealthy friendship I had with a best friend, and 2) I watched an unfair relationship happen between two of my close friends. I won’t go into detail with either of them, but in both of these situations, one person was always ungrateful and unappreciative of the other. It opened my eyes to see how selfish people can be of others – especially to the person they’re particularly close to.
I’m naturally a person who is always willing to be one others can turn to for love and support. However, I expect the same in return. I used to be a person who gave, and gave, and gave; but I didn’t often received much gratitude for it. I mean I did from some and I am truly appreciative of that. But when you give so much of yourself to others, you don’t have any time to focus on yourself. I eventually just had enough of the people that took advantage of me and I walked away.
Now I am a much happier person. My true friends are the ones that understand I need some support and space as much as they do. My friendships with others are much healthier, and honestly I feel so much more lucky and fortunate to have people that respect that.
I give a shout out to all my lovely and remarkable friends I have; I love you all *infinite kisses and hugs*
- Miranda Xx
I lately realised how much I love my buddies because of two recent events that I have watched and/or experienced: 1) I walked away from an unhealthy friendship I had with a best friend, and 2) I watched an unfair relationship happen between two of my close friends. I won’t go into detail with either of them, but in both of these situations, one person was always ungrateful and unappreciative of the other. It opened my eyes to see how selfish people can be of others – especially to the person they’re particularly close to.
I’m naturally a person who is always willing to be one others can turn to for love and support. However, I expect the same in return. I used to be a person who gave, and gave, and gave; but I didn’t often received much gratitude for it. I mean I did from some and I am truly appreciative of that. But when you give so much of yourself to others, you don’t have any time to focus on yourself. I eventually just had enough of the people that took advantage of me and I walked away.
Now I am a much happier person. My true friends are the ones that understand I need some support and space as much as they do. My friendships with others are much healthier, and honestly I feel so much more lucky and fortunate to have people that respect that.
I give a shout out to all my lovely and remarkable friends I have; I love you all *infinite kisses and hugs*
- Miranda Xx
LOOK BOOK #1: Sweet 16
Items worn:. High-low mint skirt – Temt $15
. Creamy-white lace top – Christmas pressie from my sister
. Wide white belt – My mum's
. Lace covered heels – Famous Footwear (Brand: Pied à Terre) $50
. Watch ring (not clearly visible) – Valley Girl $12
. Charm bracelets – Birthday gifts
Total Outfit Cost:
$77
Hope you like this cute lil' look!
- Miranda Xx
1/1/14 HAPPY NEW YEAR!
As it is a little after midnight on January 1st 2014, it is only appropriate to discuss New Year. I personally love the day/night of December 31st as it gives me a chance to reflect on the year that has past and what I wish to achieve in the year ahead. 2013 was an up and very down year for myself, but that gave me time to focus on myself and what I really wanted. It wasn’t until the end of the year in which I ditched the people that brought my confidence and self esteem down, as well as gained friends who appreciate me more than some ever would. 2014 is the year in which I repay the friends who make me feel special and to also shine my own light too.
Speaking of light, tonight I spent my evening with my family at home watching the fireworks from our upstairs window. Although we are a good 40 minutes outside the city, we are lucky enough to live where we can see the top of Melbourne’s CBD and the spectacular fireworks display that was on tonight. Although overall the night was a fairly quiet and relaxed NYE, I loved it all the while. Most 15 year old girls, or teens for that matter would have killed to go to a NYE party tonight; but me however, I enjoyed spending the night with just my family (and the cat of course). But saying that, I did have a wonderful outing that day with one of my best friends, *Poppy.
We went into the city to see the second part of The Hobbit (3D) at Crown. We also went window shopping through Bourke St to start our day and then we walked all the way to Crown to get lunch and see the movie. Although due to the fact I was stupid and wore heals so my feet were killing me the whole day (you know what they say?: Beauty is pain), it was the perfect way to spend my last day of 2013.
Also that day, as we got off the tram at Flinders St Station, a reporter from Channel 10 news asked us if we would want to share our New Years resolutions on camera. Naturally, we agreed and gave our little insights. As I was on the spot, I just said I aspire to be a better person in that I wanted to focus on others and all that. Cheesy, yet all the while true. Although that was a good resolution, I thought of a better one. Before, I was never really committed to my writing as even though it was my passion, I felt as it was more of a hobby. That was most likely because I had way to much going on with my life to worry about what I loved doing, and the fact I didn’t have the right inspiration to write. This year, as my one and only New Years resolution, I will commit more time to myself and write as often as I deserve. Even if I am not in the mood to be creative, just a word or two on how my day was/current feelings, or reviews on recent events, I will write whatever comes to mind.
I have a feeling that this is the year everything in my life will make more sense and I will grow into myself. 2013 was an odd year for me, so I am hoping that this year will be my year to shine. I have more self confidence and I have amazing people that surround me. With those two things, I feel invincible. I will ace my VCE subject I have taken on as a year 10 this year, as well as meet up with friends more often, get to know my guy friends more, and most of all, I will stay committed to my writing.
2014 will be my year. I just know it.
- Miranda Xx
Speaking of light, tonight I spent my evening with my family at home watching the fireworks from our upstairs window. Although we are a good 40 minutes outside the city, we are lucky enough to live where we can see the top of Melbourne’s CBD and the spectacular fireworks display that was on tonight. Although overall the night was a fairly quiet and relaxed NYE, I loved it all the while. Most 15 year old girls, or teens for that matter would have killed to go to a NYE party tonight; but me however, I enjoyed spending the night with just my family (and the cat of course). But saying that, I did have a wonderful outing that day with one of my best friends, *Poppy.
We went into the city to see the second part of The Hobbit (3D) at Crown. We also went window shopping through Bourke St to start our day and then we walked all the way to Crown to get lunch and see the movie. Although due to the fact I was stupid and wore heals so my feet were killing me the whole day (you know what they say?: Beauty is pain), it was the perfect way to spend my last day of 2013.
Also that day, as we got off the tram at Flinders St Station, a reporter from Channel 10 news asked us if we would want to share our New Years resolutions on camera. Naturally, we agreed and gave our little insights. As I was on the spot, I just said I aspire to be a better person in that I wanted to focus on others and all that. Cheesy, yet all the while true. Although that was a good resolution, I thought of a better one. Before, I was never really committed to my writing as even though it was my passion, I felt as it was more of a hobby. That was most likely because I had way to much going on with my life to worry about what I loved doing, and the fact I didn’t have the right inspiration to write. This year, as my one and only New Years resolution, I will commit more time to myself and write as often as I deserve. Even if I am not in the mood to be creative, just a word or two on how my day was/current feelings, or reviews on recent events, I will write whatever comes to mind.
I have a feeling that this is the year everything in my life will make more sense and I will grow into myself. 2013 was an odd year for me, so I am hoping that this year will be my year to shine. I have more self confidence and I have amazing people that surround me. With those two things, I feel invincible. I will ace my VCE subject I have taken on as a year 10 this year, as well as meet up with friends more often, get to know my guy friends more, and most of all, I will stay committed to my writing.
2014 will be my year. I just know it.
- Miranda Xx
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